tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post1107454720722378398..comments2023-10-30T10:32:26.904-04:00Comments on Holding Patterns: The Monster UnseenSandi McBridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09033518416111957858noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-38961085096032680572008-02-11T10:14:00.000-05:002008-02-11T10:14:00.000-05:00I think we are all becoming more careful about "st...I think we are all becoming more careful about "strangers" and we try to teach our kids and grandkids every thing we can think of to keep them safe. I still worry!<BR/>bjbjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04432398383127199206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-43663255272574607412008-02-05T11:41:00.000-05:002008-02-05T11:41:00.000-05:00Oh my Dear yesssssss! -sigh-And I especially thin...Oh my Dear yesssssss! -sigh-<BR/><BR/>And I especially think that part about.... trouble doesn't only come from strangers part, is important. It's told to them always, to watch out for strangers. But trouble doesn't always come just from strangers. <BR/><BR/>And I also told my grandaughter {16 now but whom we've had here for free day care, since she was 1 1/2 years} to kick, scream, fight, anything and everything... if trying to be abducted. Even if threatened with a knife or something. For the reasons, we all know. <BR/><BR/>We can not keep children in a plastic bubble. So much of the time, they will be their own saviours, if saving is needed. They must be talked to and warned. Even if it's ..... well, for some, it's hard to do. Not wise to be squeemish... <BR/><BR/>Mari-Nancismilnsighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17207943167502354530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-87133158845741975352008-02-05T07:55:00.000-05:002008-02-05T07:55:00.000-05:00Hi Sandi,Yes, there are really monsters among us n...Hi Sandi,<BR/>Yes, there are really monsters among us no matter where we live. After doing all that we can to warn, then we try to assure God's protection through prayer of our loved ones and all others who are vulnerable and still evil strikes.<BR/>Like a young student told me once upon the death of a beloved pet. Miss, sometimes all that's left to do is cry...Yes, the cat in my post is my White Cat with black spots the glorious Panda. Cheers, LenaWhite Catshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06808036184311975848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-9657898567187127232008-02-05T07:45:00.000-05:002008-02-05T07:45:00.000-05:00Great post Sandi!I live near a school and it is st...Great post Sandi!<BR/><BR/>I live near a school and it is still amazing to me at the kids that just have the run of this neighborhood. <BR/>I too wish the monsters had some way to let us all know just what they are!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-75076127547092864932008-02-05T03:50:00.000-05:002008-02-05T03:50:00.000-05:00kids should always be encouraged to talk to parent...kids should always be encouraged to talk to parents..and parents should listen to their kids!!1...thats the only way child abusers can be stopped.....coz most of times the child is too afgraid to say things...and the offender more than not can be a family member..uncles,cousins...My Unfinished Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17585327291812330305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-83366473186121787542008-02-04T22:49:00.000-05:002008-02-04T22:49:00.000-05:00Great post! Sad to say, some monsters are in the ...Great post! Sad to say, some monsters are in the family, church and school. Which makes it even harder for children to comprehend.<BR/>PennyPenny from Enjoying The Simple Thingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01480355122441712250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-47987464542909570012008-02-04T21:27:00.000-05:002008-02-04T21:27:00.000-05:00Hi Sandi,This is such a good post and such a sad a...Hi Sandi,<BR/><BR/>This is such a good post and such a sad account of the world. I am always friendly with strangers but I am also aware of my surroundings and my inner radar that tells me if a situation is not good. Hope you are doing well.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03187046701009700323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-37696405001422540802008-02-04T20:39:00.000-05:002008-02-04T20:39:00.000-05:00Well said Sandi... sometimes even us adults are n...Well said Sandi... sometimes even us adults are not so quick to realize there are monsters out there.... <BR/><BR/>It is becoming increasingly harder to know if someone "really" needs help or if they are faking it... <BR/><BR/>A person whose car breaks down on the side of the road... are they for real ... or for that matter the person who does stop to help...are they for real...?? <BR/><BR/>Its so sad that we can not be the good samaritans we were taught to be... to lend a helping hand when one needs it.. breaks my heart<BR/><BR/>HUGS<BR/><BR/>JONeereAnDearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01928921879187006368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-79240227280211497262008-02-04T18:27:00.000-05:002008-02-04T18:27:00.000-05:00Your post gave me chills. How sad that we live in...Your post gave me chills. How sad that we live in a world that doesn't let us trust people. I am a friendly person too so it has always been hard for my kids as I told them not to talk to strangers when they were little, but they would see mommy doing it. Once I was struggling with my baby boy and trying to hold my daughters hand while crossing the parking lot to the grocery store, an older man reached out his hand to help hold my daughters hand. I quickly grabbed her hand and said, "that's okay, and smiled at him." I'm sure he was probably just trying to help a mother in need, but it creeped me out. I always felt bad/weird about that incident. Sorry, rambling.<BR/><BR/>LisaLisa Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09945412883411503173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-89619577319812806262008-02-04T16:35:00.000-05:002008-02-04T16:35:00.000-05:00What David said....It's not about fear it's about ...What David said....It's not about fear it's about creating awareness. And yep...it's framed. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-47359926502723212922008-02-04T15:38:00.000-05:002008-02-04T15:38:00.000-05:00...and the horrible thing is that it isn't always ......and the horrible thing is that it isn't always the strangers who'll be the menace so the advice about not keeping secrets is excellent. <BR/><BR/>It feels wrong to have to live in a world where such evil lurks, but as your mother suggested, thus it has ever been.Veehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00618654361869856894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-44527700874952071332008-02-04T15:15:00.000-05:002008-02-04T15:15:00.000-05:00Very good advice, Sandi.I particularly like what y...Very good advice, Sandi.<BR/><BR/>I particularly like what your Dad used to tell you. Here in Australia, doors never used to be locked. Now they certainly are! <BR/><BR/>And yes, your advice holds true in our household as well.<BR/><BR/>It's not about creating fear, it's about creating awareness. There is a subtle difference, as we know ....david mcmahonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18009095220051075552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-38744169580354073982008-02-04T12:09:00.000-05:002008-02-04T12:09:00.000-05:00Well put Sandi but isn't a sad world that we live ...Well put Sandi but isn't a sad world that we live in.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17298456850858879001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-53371947376847455182008-02-04T12:04:00.000-05:002008-02-04T12:04:00.000-05:00Good advice to always keep in mind...all of this i...Good advice to always keep in mind...all of this is just so real today for our kids!Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16060366331794781160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-88565565109075287532008-02-04T10:00:00.000-05:002008-02-04T10:00:00.000-05:00First...CONGRATULATIONS!! In an amazing turn of e...First...CONGRATULATIONS!! In an amazing turn of events, your number came up on the random number generator and you are the winner of my Bloggy Giveaway Carnival Prize!! YAY!<BR/><BR/>Next...I can personally realte to this having been folowed home by a stranger who tried to get me in his car when I was in 4th grade. Was also blindsided in a deserted hallway after school in the 6th grade by a fellow classmate, who had been left back a couple of times, so he was much bigger. I saw him in a crowd about...oh, 26 or 27 years later and my heart fell to my feet. I thought I would fall to the floor right then and there. I never knew how much that affected me...<BR/><BR/>But anyway...you win, you win, you win..... ;)<BR/><BR/>CassieMockingbird Hillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01037974106431033012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-26362215111993009462008-02-04T06:19:00.000-05:002008-02-04T06:19:00.000-05:00I agree with everything you said and all too often...I agree with everything you said and all too often now parents are having to deal with the results of some sick pervorted b.....d,it shouldn't happen but we know it does,Keep your children safe!!!!<BR/>Misty over at werestartingfrom scratch.blogspot.com has a post on this subject and she knows only too well it is not always strangers who target children!Take care love from Kathyann and the girls at meg's mum's muffinskathyannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07150963091993307993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-15512380831372502692008-02-04T05:30:00.000-05:002008-02-04T05:30:00.000-05:00Its an awful world where you have to think about t...Its an awful world where you have to think about these sorts of things, but sadly, you are right, it is the world that we now live in. And how can you warn children about the dangers of their own friends and family as that is where much of the abuse found nowadays comes from - where should a small child turn? Awful subject.Mimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15347739764524842718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-56742153263588917432008-02-03T23:37:00.000-05:002008-02-03T23:37:00.000-05:00Like you I have been very friendly to strangers- i...Like you I have been very friendly to strangers- it pains me not to be, but I am more careful about talking to strangers these days. It is a shame we live in a world we have to deal with monsters and lose our politeness and kindness to strangers.Theresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07624198553775937553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8412565310065277929.post-29619334552930627842008-02-03T21:21:00.000-05:002008-02-03T21:21:00.000-05:00I'have my eyes on lookout for loitering adults wh...I'have my eyes on lookout for loitering adults who shouldn't be around the area... I'm paranoid about these things. I think there are many Monsters lurking in this world and too many real stories to account for. The old " DON'T TALK TO STRANGERS " saying speaks truth!Adlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15819513001311439107noreply@blogger.com